Losers play by the rules. Even the "winners" of the game. Playing by the rules means someone else determines the rules, then it becomes who is more skilled at those rules. That is not viable as there is always someone better. Then, there are "standouts" of the games. These people change the rules to fit their skills. The Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Hillary Clinton, Oprah Winfrey, Sergey Brin, etc. change the rules. If you play by the rules, you are limited to your skill. Change the game and you stand for something while others follow. Change the rules for your benefit.